Something To Think About

I had a mini-discussion with a tweep about the role religion plays in the relationships we have. Relationships of the romantic kind. We've all been brought up in religious homes, some more religious than others, but either way, we have an idea of what Christianity, Islam or any other has to say on the subject.

I was brought up in a strict Catholic household. All Christian values were installed (though now I need formatting because my morals have more or less gone blue screen) and i lived the life. Till around end of high school. It's been downhill from that point on.

What does Christianity say about romantic relationships? I don't know. I don't read those kinda books. No offence to those who do. All that I know is that premarital sex is shunned. Boys and girls should remain virgins till they get married...................................................................................................................................................................

I'm not a virgin. But I go for confession after (read old post to relate).

Basically it all boils down to sex. Nothing else I've come across. Either that or how a woman should submit to her man. Submit to me first!! I do not see the day I will come home from work before my man, cook supper, do homework with the kids then when man decides to finally check in, I take off his shoes, hand him the remote and a cup of tea? BULL CRAP!

I know I'm going off track but I'm fueled! I really don't see the point in marriage. It's going to fail anyways. He'll cheat on you or I'll get bored with him. I can't imagine 10 years with the same person. Not because of sex or anything but just normal company. I swear we'll be like room mates! And I don't buy that love crap. You can't love one person your whole life. I'm talking simple love. Not the kind that makes you go in an alley and go at it like dogs. I'm told that's lust. I mean love.

I probably don't make any sense.

Back to main topic.

What I've said above is all I know about Christianity and relationships. That and the people you can marry. No blood relations to the 6th degree (I think) and no same sex marriages. Thinking if there's something else....

I'm informed Muslims can marry blood relatives and there are reasons for that. I guess it wouldn't be weird, then, to say cousin so and so is hot. I have to keep such opinions to myself :-)

Umm, that's all I think. I guess if anything else comes to mind I'll just edit the post.

Marriage still sucks.

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Chilling

I haven't been here in forever! Not that i don't have anything to say but rather, I do not know how to say it.

I'm home for a two week holiday that seems to be going faster than I want it to. I really don 't feel like going back to school. I love the lounging I'm doing. Waking up late, not taking a shower till late in the afternoon! Bliss I tell you!

I'm at my sister's cheering her on with her pregnancy. She was due 3 days ago but the baby has other plans. Actually, the baby wants to come but my sister's cervix is curved so waiting till it straighens out so that the baby comes. I am currently in a complicated relationship with said cervix because I want to see my niece and spend time with her before going back to Nairobi.

It's 1346hrs. Just brushed my teeth. Still in my pjs and my legs are unshaved. My hair is a mess and I'm on my 100th glass of mango juice. Waiting for lunch to be served. Quite the boss, ey? And I'm not moving from this point again. Maybe just to refill my glass. Maybe I'll take a shower later. Like just before I sleep.

Texted my sis to ask how long till lunch. Just a couple more minutes. She's in the kitchen :-)

Quite unapologetic!

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